Hi. I'm Brandon.

I'm a husband, dad, and digital mercenary. (I just made that up. It sounds cooler than "freelancer.") I'm also a writer who thinks we should live life on our own terms.

So, that's what I write about. And the best way to hear about new posts is to sign up for my email list. You can do that right here:

Relative Versus Actual Happiness

It’s human nature to compare ourselves to others. When we do, we compare our level of happiness to theirs. We assign ourselves a “relative” level of happiness.

We’d be better off focusing on our own, actual happiness.

How to Live Life on Your Own Terms

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Don’t quit your day job.

That sounds weird coming from me. After all, a big part of my story is that I quit my job.

But, I didn’t wake up one day and think, “I don’t like my job anymore. I’m going to quit.” Instead, it was a calculated risk. It was something I did to take back control.

I decided to live my life on my own terms. So the real advice is:

Don’t quit your day job without a plan.

You Don’t Have to Make Lemonade

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My biggest goal in life is to deliver a college commencement speech. It’s gonna happen. In fact, I’ve already written the speech:

When life gives you lemons, you don’t have to make lemonade. You can make whatever the hell you want. You can throw them out and ask for something else – something less sour.

Don’t waste your only life doing something you don’t enjoy. Instead, find what you love – what keeps you up at night – and do more of that.

And don’t stop looking until you find it.

The Real Meaning of “Opposites Attract”

“Opposites attract.”

We’ve heard this all our lives. Or at least I have, thanks to Paula Abdul and that creepy cartoon cat.

It’s an old saying, and it makes sense—for magnets. But for the way we normally use it, it’s too simple.

How to Navigate a Chaotic World

The world is changing faster than we can keep up. New technologies and innovations are turning industries on their heads, and it’s hard to know what we should pay attention to and what we should ignore.

But this doesn’t have to be scary. In fact, I think the next 30 years of innovation are going to improve the lives of everyone in the world.

We just need the right mindset and approach to navigate the chaos.